Why don't you read my latest Houzz piece:
"Nature is not a garden, but it’s too easy to see nature as something
imperfect. When we can take a step back and see a fallen tree as
beautiful and purposeful or appreciate an assassin bug enjoying its moth
dinner, we can see that the world doesn’t seem to need us in it, and we
can start to become a more humble and rewarding part of it. A garden
can teach us how to interact with life and guide us into deeper
self-discovery if we design with purpose, then let that design evolve
with the species that come to call it home."
Link to the full article here.